Weekly Mind Bender

The first is needed to make quotes you see, and it often sticks up when it’s time for noon tea.
The second’s biggest distinction is found, bearing the symbol of love that is bound.
The third should be biggest but that can depend, never standing alone or it may offend.
The fourth is oft used when making a selection, or if you should need a gun for protection.
The fifth is the fattest and oddest by far, and can sometimes be found in a wrestling war.
What are they?

The digits of the hand! (The order on the poem is pinky, ring finger, middle finger, index or pointer finger, and thumb)